And then I met my husband.
He drove a truck.
Paul + |
![]() = |
![]() |
I was torn. How could this smart, handsome, well educated man drive such a vehicle? Surely he had his reasons. I soon learned that this truck was going nowhere. It was here to stay. I had to learn to love it, or at least deal with it as an appendage of Paul's. Over the next few years of our relationship I learned to tolerate the truck. It was not the most comfortable of vehicles in which to travel, and if we had more than two people someone had to sit in the extended cab with the little seat flipped down sideways. Not an ideal way to travel very far. But despite my distaste for Paul's truck, it did get him from place to place and came in handy at a few tailgating events. I still preferred my little Corolla that got twice the gas mileage.
Four years ago Paul moved to Louisiana. I visited often and thought of it as my second home. The truck successfully moved Paul and all his belongings (and towed a small trailer with some extras) all the way to from OH to LA. I was unable to help with this move because I was being trained by the US Army, so I was thankful that he had a reasonable way to get himself all the way down South. The truck's worth increased slightly in my eyes.
I soon came to realize that if you lived in a small town in Louisiana and you DIDN'T have a truck, you were in the minority. If you drove a four-door compact car from Japan, you didn't fit in. I've never liked being an outsider. The truck began to seem a little more hip. I began to toss aside the fact that it cost twice as much to fill up the gas tank as it did to fill up my car. It didn't matter, the only driving you really had to do here is all within a 5 mile radius!
Since becoming a permanent resident of Natchitoches I have noticed more trucks than ever before. This is the scene in the parking lot at a restaurant where we ate a couple weeks ago. No joke.
I have started realizing that what I used to think of as a negative situation has turned into a positive. Our (I used to call it "Paul's" but now that I like it I'll take partial ownership) truck comes in handy all the time!!! Throwing this and that in the truck bed to take it across town can be a real time saver. Our friends ask to borrow the truck to move a piece of furniture or move lumber for a house project.
Not only have I found it functionally useful during my trips to the hardware store, but when I drive the truck I feel like people look at me and might actually think I'm from here! (Note my previously mentioned need to fit in.)
Now when we talk about vehicles we might have in the future, a truck is still in the running. I'm all in... let's get a giant truck. Then we can have a full seat in the back and sit up even higher on the road.... we could look down at all the little people and call it our Ford Throne!
Trucks are a Southern way of life. We can't always explain the reasons why, but we can learn to appreciate them. I'm sorry I used to hate the truck, Paul.